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Originally Posted by m kenya

If God choses for me, then doesnt that invalidate my free will to chose??

lets just say God works behind the scenes for you. He'll allow you to make choices which you as a human being think are good for you. i mean we dont usually run into the right person at the first try.

He lets you make your choices and gives you the wisdom to discern what is good and what is wrong cos he knows you better.. He knows how you work. he's like the manufacturer who put the pieces of the pproduct together from scratch.

He does not command that this is he/she or that you have to take this one/that one. He chooses for people who are willing to let Him.
In life sometimes you can do things out of your own accord but it fikas a time when you have made so many errors in your judgement that you are convinced only He can make the right choice for you.

You have a free will but he guides you to what is good for you.
Yeah, i think God influences who you have