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Originally Posted by Umslopogaas

8 months only? Oh Please! And did someone say women can go for 2 years “but men men.....no no no..…” ?

Try me!

I went for slightly over 3 years. By choice. But then, maybe it is different in Kenya (since this is posted under the Maisha ya Kenya section), and just being in Kenya makes it impossible. I am not there. But I would still have gone the distance (quoth Bush) whether I had been in Siberia, Kenya, or trapped inside a castle with Olivia (Shrek‘s squeeze)!

I messed up with a Kenyan girl I really DID LOVE, and she walked out of my life in the spring of 2004. My subsequent SELF PUNISHMENT was to have some kind of SEXUAL FASTING.

I did have some wet dreams, but I did not masturbate. I have just recently started seeing a Haitian, slightly over 3 years to the date.

And no, I did not have a shortage of offers. I just felt so much remorse, so much anger at myself... I didn’t feel like touching another woman. It was more like a matter of honor. I did go out with girls for dinner and a couple times to Zanzibar and Love (Dreams), but my mind was far from sex.

And yes, I AM at peace now.

why did i fall in love with u immediately???????????