[jacnal]

IMHO if the child's life is really poor in Tanzania, and the family can't cope with raising the child, I'd say go for it, give him/her an opportunity, and keep them in touch with their family in Tanzania. I don't know what you mean by schooling the child - bringing him to the US for education? That can only be good, IMO.

I know there was a big outcry when Madonna and Guy adopted David from Malawi, but I really didn't see a problem. Maybe it was easier for them because they've no money constraints, but I think Madonna is a good parent, and David jas been back to visit his family, and to me that is good because as he grows up, he knows dad's in Malawi, he's poor, and him letting go has given Dave a shot at a better life. It's a wonderful opportunity fo the little lad.

I'm black Kenyan, my husband is white British, and we've an interest in adopting from one of the Kenyan orhanages. I suspect there will be alot of serious issues to consider, and we'll do it when the time is absolutely right.

Out of interest - how old is this child? Sounds like you've found the child you want to adopt. What is his family like and what's their take on this matter?

Oh, BTW, I've seen black kids brought up in white households and they've turned out to be great individuals. And vise versa! Just keep them in touch with their culture and they'll turn out to be just fine! It isn't easy, but it's doable.

Good luck. An update for the nosey ones (like me) would be cool!