[ppirres]

You are in a game called a relationship which has never been a game of roses.
I see that you are not mature enough for an 'older jamaa' -he will lie, cheat and may even be married. What the hell who said roses don't harbour thorns?

go back to younger jamaas until you become mature enuff to handle the game. this is also reflected i the fact that you have generalised and put aside younger jamaas cos of age. maturity is what counts in a relationship...and cheating is part of it because u r not married yet.
it is only in a marriage situtation that u would not expect cheating...but it still happens. the guy knows he can have u and someone else becos u r not mature enuff to know.

Settle for less now (younger jamaas) until you get wiser. Only then can you move.