[general_b]

After I perisistently kept requesting about the gal, he said "I lOVE YOU BABES, BUT I NEED TIME"

the guy is a player. Tell him to hit the road (period)
then move on, no second thoughts...
it will be hard doing that, but you will heal after sometime,trust me on that
oh ho, I forgot!
and make sure he knows he is the one who tripped so you get to be the leaver and not the left...