[Msoto]

Both what diezzle and happyK say are kind of true. While you do not want to 'suffocate' him with 'what does this mean questions' you also want him to be aware of how you feel on this issue. There seems to be something that he is not comfortable with, if however you find no way to activate your lines of communication. Then it maybe best to move on.

I would suggest...make him a sumptous meal one time.....his favorite dish....set the table...and let him eat until he has his fill. If he asks you about your day and everything...just smile....and then when he is done...bring up the topic of....so...whats going on about this and that. Hopefully you will be able to communicate on where you stand relationship wise....dont ask too many questions at once...ask and pause for an answer.......patiently you can end up finding out what you need to know.

You have been together for 13months it wouldn't be wise to rush into making any decision just based on assumptions.