[sarin]

I won't tell you to trust your instincts coz many times were don't even know how to gauge our own instincts. Leave instincts for the beasts. Look gal if you don't wanna sleep with the guy then don't. Period. Most men know that sex is a big issue for gals and they are gonna be those gals that give it out easily and those that don't. So meeeting someone who don't shouldn't be a shocker to any man. If a man finds one that don't wanna give it out he should understand and either stay with her and respect her, OR move on to one that gives it out.
Gal if you have a value in not having sex then stand by your values and don't shed it just to please anyone. I am giving you my opinion and advice just as I would my young sister.
Don't sleep with him to find out if he is for real. You are he one that will look yaself infront of the mirror everyday and ask yaself if you are happy with the way you are doing things, so think about it.
peace!



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