[ATLian]

>Why would sane people watch pornography? There must be
>something wrong for one to have to see other people having
>fake sex for him/her to be turned on. Your partner should be
>able to turn you on at all moments. Sex shouldnt be solely
>kept to bed and at night.

BTW Kemi, when it comes to porn, you are in a very small minority. Yaani you are saying that if you saw some naked chics on video you'd be totally unaffected? Dang, pole man, I "thank god" I'm not like you. Most men, regardless of their sexual orientation, are turned on by porn. You are the exception. Men are visual animals, Just show most jamaas a picture of a naked chic and blood starts flowing. We aren't like chics who need the mood to be right, the stars to be aligned, the right words to be said, the temperature to be correct, etc, before we get turned on.

Also, take a model Christian couple as an example. They were both virgins when they married, they had never watched or read porn, they had never discussed sex with their pals coz it was tabboo, etc. To them sex was a filthy thing that only becomes clean after marriage. Now they find themselves married and having to sexually please each other for the rest of their lives bila knowing anything about sex. That is a recipe for a disastrous marriage. You will have a very unfulfilled wife. This is why many marriage therapists recommend porn for people to spice up their sex lives. Porn will teach you stuff you didn't know, show you there there are more than 2 styles in bed, teach you about sex toys, show you how to go down on your chic, etc. But if you want your sex life to be like the ones our gread-grand-parents had, hey, go ahead. For me, I'll try my very best to make sure my wife is totally fulfilled, and I will read and watch whatever can give me more knowledge in that field...