No one has the right to cast a rock at anyone without understanding them first.
"When you look at me, and me you, we are facing different directions; my right is your left and my left your my right.....however when we face the same direction, your left is my left and my right is your right"
-Reggie Von Woic (clever chap he is)
So unless you know what its really like to be in the other person's shoes, you have no business saying their too tight;
All you have is a biased and unbacked opinion based on your own personal situation.
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