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I understand your frustrations. Here is my honest opinion because the question of evil troubles me so.

Sometimes bad things happen to good people. Satan not God is responsible for those.

In the bible there is the story of Job who was a good man. But to test his faith God allowed satan to harass him. In the end he was strong.

So all those bad things are merely trials and temptations.

But this is a very simplistic and pedestrian response that even I can demolish. But it is a start...