[Kohcoh]

>NO upright wife will find it hard to submit to a husband who
>totally loves her to 'death'. With such LOVE, submission will
>be easy.
>
>The unfairness is that many men don't give such love to their
>wives BUT still demand submission.
>
>WHICH IS more difficult to LOVE or to SUBMIT (as unto the
>Lord).
>
>

TM you are right. The problem is that men do not love their women as Jesus loved the church. I know that if my man loved me, I mean that
kind of love, I would submit.

But remember that submission does not translate into slavery or subordination, which is how many see it. The church is not Jesus's slave.