[solomatic]

supajack,
kenyan relationships fail because kenyans are full of sh*t. we enter relationships with people because:

1. we can't handle being alone
2. for sex
3. because we want to go out with the best looking person.
4. or the richest person.
5. we are fake and can't be our true selves in the relationship so we pretend to be clever and 'cute' and 'deep'.
6. have more secrets from our partners than we share intimacies
7. are trying too much to be western so angusha all sorts of melrose place drama into our relationships.
8. have never realised that you don't get involved with someone to become 'whole'. you're supposed to be whole and happy and then meet someone who's whole and happy and then create something beautiful together.
9. don't know how to support and nurture one another.
10. are embarassed by stupid things like bad feet, stetchmarks, looks, - and yet, no one chose to look the way they do.
11. are busy plotting how to catch our partners dogging so we can confirm our insecurities and suspicions.
12. can't believe that anything beautiful and wonderful can happen to us. if we find ourselves in a relationship where things are working out well, we get suspicious and then do juu chini to create/find something 'bad' and 'wrong' with the other person so that we can rest assured that we were right all along and this person was really 'bad' and 'just pretending'

ad finitum.


by the way supajack, where are you located?

jujusis:
the more i read your posts, the more i feel you are one wierd woman. i feel like i'm being sucked deeper and deeper into a cave somewhere in a dense thick central african forest. what's the deal?