[milanya]

Tell the poor jamaa...it is not fair to build a relationship on a lie. He may still stay by your side and even support you instead of you gong through it alone. You may be right that perhaps a young man trying to be with a terminal woman isn't the best situation, but you have no right to make that call. How would you feel if one day the jamaa came and said 'I don't think you'll like my secret so it's over'. Let him make the decision.

I hope you are ok hun'