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Default RE: Break ups and family - 09-12-2006, 12:31 PM

who's not your boyfriend?
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>DGal,
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>I think her point was, and I agree with her is that you are
>looking at this from a very 'innocent' POV. Wewe uko na roho
>safi...but in reality, perceptions lie in the eyes of the
>perceiver.
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>Infact, he may not be hurt at all or pretend that he's not
>hurt. That's gon sting this chic.
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>He may raise the stakes and start dating the sisters. Ouch!
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>As long as this chic is reacting to his actions, she remains
>his slave. Double ouch!!

@ Kemi; I hear you.

@ Styled UP; Personally, if I was in the same situation, I would ignore this dude like he never existed. If you keep on reacting to his every move and vamiaring your sisters and him then you give him the satisfaction of knowing he is hurting you. Just move on and leave this dude alone. If your sisters want to heng out with him and you've asked them not to and they still insist, let them be. They are mature adults who are entitled to their opinions and actions. As long as they don't bring the dude to a house we share then I am fine. In the meantime, get a hobby and keep yourself busy.
 
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