[Lioness1]

You obviously thought you trusted the guy, yet you realize you don't. Another thing I gather is that you are fairly clingy and have lost the essence of who you are without this guy - chicks tend to do that quite abit in new relationships.

Since you asked for advise, here goes - a) for your own good, get a life of your own, doing some things that generally don't include your man. This is important as men (boyfies, husbands, any man...) will at one point get bored with hanging around with you ALL his spare time. b) Amua to either trust him and be with him, or distrust him and let him go. c) learn to speak up for yourself, saying what is exactly on your mind. You will not look good saying yes, then changing your mind a few days into the deal - to be honest, you will seem fickle and undecided. d) If you love your ex jamaa, go back to him and stop wasting this jamaa's time.

L