RE: I need your opinion about my boyfriend.. sorry it's a long story -
09-09-2006, 11:24 PM
>Hello all..
>I have been with this man for almost a year now. But now I am
>wondering how truthful he is. For the past almost one year he
>was so much into our relationship, we used to spend almost all
>our time together
We work close to one another and will go
>for lunch.. The days we do not see each other we will be on
>the phone after work till we fall asleep
If we are not on the
>phone we play computer games together because we are not
>together.. When the week end comes we are spending the whole
>entire time together.. Unless he want to go play pool and he
>tells me
sometimes I feel like going and meet him there
>sometime I meet him afterwards. During our entire relationship
>he has always told me about his ex ex that he dated for 5-6
>years and they studied together, lived together and then split
>because they were not made for each other.. But he mentioned
>that they are still very good friends and that they talk once
>in a while.
>The ex ex was a good friend of his sister, and knew his
>family. After one year of being together he told me that his
>ex exs brother was getting married and for that reason the
>family was coming to town and asked him to be a host, to which
>he agreed. So the family is in town for the past week and
>half.. They are supposed to be here for two weeks. Last week
>end he took off with them to visit his sister and he did tell
>me that the sister was like, if they are in town and its a
>long week end why dont you guys come and I know that the the
>ex-ex was the sisters roommate a long time ago.. And my
>boyfriend told me he had to take them out of town.. I myself
>do not know the sister.. Nor do I know the ex ex but he told
>me everything ( I think ??? about them). Now is the second and
>last week end they are here and I wonder if I should trust
>him.. On e hand he did tell me they will be here for two weeks
>and I did not react to it..
>His argument now is that I did not say anything and If I was
>pissed I should have told him. And now that they are here and
>he committed to be a host, he has to do it. So we have spent
>no time together..
>Its making me very sad knowing that for the past one year we
>have been together all our free times ( I mean when we are not
>at work). And the fact that he can use all his frre time with
>another girl, which is an ex-ex and her family piss me off. So
>is this a good reason to dump him?
>I am very sad, because I feel like I missed the bus. I used to
>be with a kenyan guy, I will never forget him. I caught him
>online cheating... I wonder if i still love him and that's why
>I cannot move forward.
>
Kawaida i don even botha, lakini, leo imebidi,
Helloooooooooo, paragraphs?!?!?!?!?!
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