[melissa1973]

Hello all..
I have been with this man for almost a year now. But now I am wondering how truthful he is. For the past almost one year he was so much into our relationship, we used to spend almost all our time together… We work close to one another and will go for lunch.. The days we do not see each other we will be on the phone after work till we fall asleep… If we are not on the phone we play computer games together because we are not together.. When the week end comes we are spending the whole entire time together.. Unless he want to go play pool and he tells me… sometimes I feel like going and meet him there sometime I meet him afterwards. During our entire relationship he has always told me about his ex ex that he dated for 5-6 years and they studied together, lived together and then split because they were not made for each other.. But he mentioned that they are still very good friends and that they talk once in a while.
The ex ex was a good friend of his sister, and knew his family. After one year of being together he told me that his ex ex’s brother was getting married and for that reason the family was coming to town and asked him to be a host, to which he agreed. So the family is in town for the past week and half.. They are supposed to be here for two weeks. Last week end he took off with them to visit his sister and he did tell me that the sister was like, “ if they are in town and it’s a long week end why don’t you guys come” and I know that the the ex-ex was the sister’s roommate a long time ago.. And my boyfriend told me he had to take them out of town.. I myself do not know the sister.. Nor do I know the ex ex but he told me everything ( I think ??? about them). Now is the second and last week end they are here and I wonder if I should trust him.. On e hand he did tell me they will be here for two weeks and I did not react to it..
His argument now is that I did not say anything and If I was pissed I should have told him. And now that they are here and he committed to be a host, he has to do it. So we have spent no time together..
It’s making me very sad knowing that for the past one year we have been together all our free times ( I mean when we are not at work). And the fact that he can use all his frre time with another girl, which is an ex-ex and her family piss me off. So is this a good reason to dump him?
I am very sad, because I feel like I missed the bus. I used to be with a kenyan guy, I will never forget him. I caught him online cheating... I wonder if i still love him and that's why I cannot move forward.