[Okwang]

Kanyabu,
Wow, unanizungusha with your words. I think Milanya's last paragraph summed it up rather neatly. Having said that, because you like this guy, and it seems that the commuting isn't really affecting your wallet; I'd say that you should let the relationship progress at its own pace. You are not in a hurry to get hitched nor are you desparate so lets see what the road holds. There isn't a formula unfortunately. People are different. I know of a couple who met, moved in within 3 months and are now married with 2 kids. This is the time to rely on your morals and gut feeling. Why are you confused though? What is the rush? Where's the fire?
If all else fails, PRAY for DIVINE guidance. It works.