[mugithimadness]

>dear mashadites...i have a question. As far as the future of
>a marriage is concerned do you think a marriage relationship
>that is made up of two different tribes has a poor future as
>compared to one made up of two similar tribes? Actually i
>guess to be more clear, do you guys think that a marriage will
>surely not work out because it is is made up of people of
>different tribes?
>Another question do you think that in the case of an
>intertribal marriage there are certain tribes that are more
>compatible ex. meru and kikuyu or kamba and kikuyu compared to
>maybe meru and luo?
>i am in a relationship that my parents think is doomed because
>i am kamba and he is a kikuyu... i just need to hear other
>people's opinions.
>
>


Sorry to hit you with this one but....your parents are Pretty shallow...we are waaayyyyyyy past the tribal factor...as we all are kenyans, triablism and marriage are very irrelevant....they really need to style up and realize these ain't the ancient days when they had arranged marriages from the same clansmen/women...and love had nothing to do with it.....Should it worry you that they think your marriage to this person is doomed...you got other things to worry about like do you really think it can survive external inteferences e.g your paros....and is what drove you to marry this guy still there....all said and done...be your own person,...you are somebody's wife and hence capable of making your own goddamn decisions and stick to them regardless of what your shallow folks think...get with it!

MM