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Majuzi,

You know i always drop lines that are real even though they hurt alot of these crazy folks.

From my own experience,inter-tribal relationships work just as well as same tribe marriage,in fact much better at times.I noticed there are very many Jengs who mary Kikuyu girls but heres the catch -so long as you both remain in the states or far away from both family opinion polls.When you marry a different girl from a different tribe and you are based outside the country,be prepared to hear some rumbles when you go back home thats for sure! Thats why its always so tricky!

But as far as i,m concerned,i think once you and your significant other decide to tie the knot, your parents can pretty much go and shove it!They were raised at a time when there wasnt much interaction among various tribes,when tribes generally focused on territory ownership and maintaining the status quo.Remember,there was never a country called Kenya before the colonial powers came to dictate to us who we are.After Independece when we just got our independece,we decalared Kenya a Republic and we basically never got to learn who our neighbours suddenly became.That caused alot of friction and suspicion amongst ourselves.So when these old folks talk to you about Such and such a tribe are crazy,they do it from a stand point thats completely irrelevant to us today.They failed to create the inter tribal cohesion they should have and instead created an atmosphere of suspicion and hate (trust me thats what most mashadites grew up on and you can see it stick its ugly head all over mashada)They say you cant marry a girl from another tribe,but when you mary one of your own from somwhere else,they say you still cant marry her coz shes from Nyeri!! I,m like What the F!!!!!!! its all stupid thats how i see it.

If you find love and someone who trully feels for you as you for her...marry that woman/man ,or for the those of us tribalists....just marry your mums siz!