[Proletariat]

If you want to place hot coals on your head, marry somebody who is not from your tribe.

Your parents got it right, and they can see things you cannot see now, since for now what might be driving you is high expectations of marriage.

Unless this is last option you have, don't do it.

By the fact that you don't speak the same language, which makes everything in you and him, you are two different people.

By the way, what language will you be speaking, and what language will your children be speaking?

You can marry him. Inter-racial, and inter-tribes marriages have many problems, including irreconcilable ones, that 'intraracial, intratribe' marriages don't have.

Label me a racist, or a tribalist, but I can't marry somebody outside my tribe, and tribe is not enough, but somebody who is 'typically,' with all aspects, of my tribe.

I can't imagine speaking English to my wife and children.