RE: lonely in dallas - its depressing -
04-14-2006, 03:47 PM
Ask any married guy and they will tell you that they get approached by more chicks after they get married than they ever did when they were single! Because these guys know they have a woman at home, they don't spend all night chasing after women, and, it may be counterintuitive but women seem to dig this! Married guys can talk to women without feeling like they have to impress them, coz they already have a woman. They are therefore free to be themselves and just enjoy women's company. When women feel less pressured as when they know that a dude is probably just trying to score, they are more willing to give you a chance! Women are looking for men, too! They just don't wanna look slutty by being too easy.
Just try not to get caught in the "friend zone"! Learn how to flirt without going over the top with off-color explicit jokes. Kinda sense where she's coming from. Some girls like to get a little dirty with their flirt game, while some are more prudish. Adjust according to audience. I find that it works best to throw in a few suggestions of you getting together and then backing off a little. Throw it out there and then let the idea marinate in her mind. At least she'll know you may be more interested in more than just friendship. Give her the chance to make up her mind so she doesn't feel like she got picked up so easily.
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