Sorry dude. You sound really low:(Since church isn't helping you here, the next best place to start is at the club. You'll probably meet many kenyans who you WILL NOT want to have any further contact with in future lol but chances are you'll meet a few people who you'll like:) even if its jamaas, from there you'll eventually meet girls.Cheer up!
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