[msema ukweli Kabisa]

(disclaimer - to get it correct if what you said is that those people are not using him, only that your boyfie loves helping here is my rumblings)

I have rarely been contribting to threads for some time now but this one I cannot let it pass.
Milanya, its so sad that "and I say this kindly" you are bit*ching about your boyfriends kind heart. And I can bet my last cents that you are exergerating alittle bit about the extent of his giving.
Anyway this is my point, this world day by day is loosing men and woman of your boyfriends calibre. People who would go an extra step to help despite of their needs. We are becoming a society of me first and only me. To read you castigizing your boyfie for his kind heart is so heartbreaking. You do not deserve him if you think him going an extra step for people is a crime. As msoto told you in an earlier post some people's purpose is to give and that is is (as much as this sounds corny) you trying to change him is such a deservice to this world which is so lacking of such characters.

May God bless your boyfie and I hope he keeps on going an extra step for people