[nyambu]

>I won't be surprised if he has a wife or a steady girlfriend.

thats true maybe the wife or girlfriend is always at his place that is why you never get there.
you better bail out now while you can.soon you will start asking if being a concubine is so wrong?lol that dude is married!!!!!! ama he is very much committed to someone else.
after you give him some some and he gets tired he will leave you high and dry.