[patt]

the guys responding to the thread are not even offering a solution.why don't you make yourself useful and tell this chic how guys will normally respond to a chic who decides to declare her love for a man who probably is having a prolonged one night stand?

Me thinks if this guy approached you first and told you he would like you to be his galfriend,i don't see why it is hard for him to say he loves you.You probably not the type of person he would like to be serious with, or the time isn't right.

Chics are equally qualified to comment on this subject because they have dated the man species or atleast been friends with a man at some point and have an idea on how to deal with the issue at hand.

My advice is if you are the one who hit on the man and he was okey with it, he will be okey with when you utter those words you very much wish to.