Saying I Love You (even when you're not sure he'll say it back)
Well, duh. No girl wants to declare her love to a stony silence. But equally most boys would rather get down n dirty with Wellard than discuss their feelings. So there comes a time for every girl when we've just got to go for it.
The groundwork;
No need to get deep. Just chat casually about your relationship: "I'm having such a good time with you." "I never thought I'd find someone with as sick a sense of humour as me." That kind of thing. You'll know from his reaction if he's ready for the "Love" word.
The first time you say, "I love you" you'll probably feel like a bit of an idiot. Don't worry - if it's right, it soon feels right.
But if you just cant bring yourself to say it, buy a card containing the essential words (obviously avoid anything cute or involving kittens - you don't want his reaction to involve vomit). Make sure you're together when he opens it.
Pick the right time and place to tell him. around ur' friendz= bad idea. Choose somewhere private where youll get his undivided attention. When it comes to choosing your moment, go with your instincts.
If he doesn't say it back, dont assume he doesnt love you back.
If he actually tells you he doesnt love you, then at least you know where you stand. Yes, you'll feel like sh1t, but it needn't be an automatic dumping offence and he might change his mind. Some boys fear love and commitment like they fear a freak D1ck-severing incident. Only you can decide whether to stick around.
http://pics-21.hi5.com/userpics/421/...img.medium.jpg
+DONT HATE THE PLAYA, HATE THE GAME+