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I've never been guilty of dating odieros but AA sisters kwa wingi. N'way what is the saying "familiarity breeds contempt".....when you are a ka-newbie huko majuu...our kenyan sisters are like "this one just got here...what can he do for me"...there enough posts on this in the forum. They feel they know your circumstances and can safely judge what you're about....therefore you are dismissed.

For the non-kenyan mamas, you are an unknown quality/quantity...therefore interesting...and whether you have ma-paper/job is their least concern....they want to know YOU.

...so of course I dated non-kenyans....later I am to be "sat down" by my kenyan sisters yawa....ati "why dont you have a kenyan mama?" when a pal has done well for himself...but before....no love...so its not always about tanga-tanga-ing then rudi-ing home...sometimes you start out without a home....