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Black men do not like it when a chick comes in here praising her white jamaa or whatever other race he is. Black women, the same but i'll sema its mostly African American chicks who have issues with black men dating outside. Most African chiks at least those that i've met and jua are either dating IR themselves or its just not a big issue. I think it stems from how our psychology develops depending on where we grew up. Nyumbani, African chicks reign supreme. We grow up with a natural confidence that we are the only women that matter. Growing up in a western world is diff. The black race is constantly under attack even if this is subtle an not the blatant kkk days. The epitome of beauty is White. This is something little black girls begin 'dealing' with from the time they can 'see' color. Think about it. Have you ever seen any cultural importance placed on little black girls in any western country? At that young age, it has already began.

So if you grow up a minority in a culture that is constantly telling you that unless you are white or really close to it (pointi lookin) then you 'lack', you are bound to get testy when your own man comes over with his non black chick talking bout how bad this, bad that black women are. And A LOT of miro men do this. Its the only thing i'll never understand about IR relationships.The need to rubbbish your 'own' in order to date outside even if that woman you have chosen is the fugliest ting or undesireble character anybody ever met. Otherwise, i think people should have the freedom to date who they want. You cannot force such things. However i always give black women who b.i.t.ch about IR dating a pass--because they have lived under white supremacy and it is not an easy life let alone the fact that it can make you paranoid.