[KEMINOKANA]

hahaha funny thread.....didnt know u people have a rage for men and even have tricks to catch our attention :D.

At times ur ice breakers may not quite break the ice....and might even backfire. Some chic came to me mid last year. I'd been seeing her on campus and being a majority white school, as blacks, we just said hi to eachother. So this day she came to me and shook my hands saying congratulations. I wasnt expecting it at all so I said thank you. I thought she'd leave after but alas, she stood still there staring at me! I was left speechless and all I'd say was "i'll see you around". My friend who was there almost killed me after.

So make sure you have a backup plan should he not catch ur icebreaker. Bring up something else that starts a conversation in case he takes ur ice breaker like that of complimenting his locks as just another of the many compliments he probably gets.

But it is time u quit sleeping around. Dont be a door mat....to me that would have me running to the mountains. But I've also realized that a majority of those women who approach men are just like you: they have done that to many other men and are over####ked! Which is why I'll never take such women seriously. No ill intended :D