[Msoto]

1) The game is about being yourself. Some people try too hard and others not at all.

2) A chile can be very enticing when you are just checking her and she is just checking you...once you jua her...its like the mysticism evaporates....and then you are like...if we could turn back the hands of time...to that time tulikuwa tukichekiana.

I like chiles who take the initiative....hata kama sio f* budy its definately a spark of interest if a chile can walk upto a jamaa...and strike a conversation.

However some chiles want to act all special...like flowers waiting for jamaas to come around the corner...serenading them with pointless vibes...its 2006....chiles need to make moves to a jamaa.
They need to go upto them and discuss why Seahawks may win the superbowl after stopping the "BUS".

If you like him nadia move upto him. Or smile and wink at him...when you maintain eye contact. And see how that goes.