[milanya]

>Most of these will sound shallow but I am normally attracted
>to dudes that are taller than me and work out....first cut.
>After you succeed in getting my number...
>Then I like a guy with a reasonable amount of
>intelligence...clued in on several issues.
>Generally the standoffish guys attract me, I am scared away by
>clingy types coz they tend to be very smothering. Then the
>friends and lovers thing doesn't work for me...got enough
>friends.
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>I also cant stand guys who cling to their mothers....it means
>that they will want you to be their mother.
>
>Finally I like a guy who can oppose my point of view without
>developing aggressive personality disorder.....I remember this
>dude everytime we had a "discussion" about something it ALWAYS
>ended up in a real pseudo-fight..him calling me dumb and me
>calling him ignorant...lol...a great mark of insecurity in a
>dude. I like a guy that can feel comfortable when I disagree
>with him and still feel confident not harboring some silly
>insecurities. I also like a guy that I won't feel that I have
>to "water down" the conversation depth for..you know some
>dudes just dont have a clue its such a major turnoff.
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I know what you mean! I met this jamaa yaani we could not have lunch without an argument and him calling me childish and me thinking he is overbearing. I'd rather be with a man who has very diff opinions than mine and is tolerant than a man who share 90% of my ideas but fights me to death about 10%


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