[Whitehead]

Most of these will sound shallow but I am normally attracted to dudes that are taller than me and work out....first cut.
After you succeed in getting my number...
Then I like a guy with a reasonable amount of intelligence...clued in on several issues.
Generally the standoffish guys attract me, I am scared away by clingy types coz they tend to be very smothering. Then the friends and lovers thing doesn't work for me...got enough friends.

I also cant stand guys who cling to their mothers....it means that they will want you to be their mother.

Finally I like a guy who can oppose my point of view without developing aggressive personality disorder.....I remember this dude everytime we had a "discussion" about something it ALWAYS ended up in a real pseudo-fight..him calling me dumb and me calling him ignorant...lol...a great mark of insecurity in a dude. I like a guy that can feel comfortable when I disagree with him and still feel confident not harboring some silly insecurities. I also like a guy that I won't feel that I have to "water down" the conversation depth for..you know some dudes just dont have a clue its such a major turnoff.