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>Zamani I met this jamaa who was really nice and I was very
>attracted to him. I soon found out he had a girlfriend so I
>backed off cause I'm not one of those girls. We ended up
>working together and he became one of my best friends. I soon
>started dating this other guy and was so happy with him. Later
>the jamaa I'd liked before and his girlfriend split up and he
>was single for a long time. I was still with my man. One day
>that jamaa came up to me and told me he was in love with me.
>It got me all confused and I started thinking what if? Part
>of me didn't want him to ever find another girlfriend though I
>was not planning on leaving my man. Does the fact that he was
>able to stir up my emotions like that mean I was not over him,
>or that I was unhappy in my relationship and ignoring it or
>was it just nostalgia or plain normal? By the way - I never
>went out with the guy because he moved and we drifted apart.
>The jamaa I was dating and i went out for years then our
>relationship ended for other reasons
>Life's not a garden so don't be a hoe

milanya...this is the chap for you...dont let him go..
reasons..you have much in common...the guy had a mama but he wanted you too...greed! now his mama is gone he has remembered you but you have a guy and you dont want him to move on...greed! at this point you can empathise with how he could have wanted you when he had a mama, cause now you want him and you have a chap...two peas in a pod!
milanya...this is the chap for you...dont let him go..