[Lone ranger]

@blkbabe
Could it be that the problem was you and not him?
Just because you raised it first doesnt mean you didnt cause it.I dont mean to sound like the devils advocate here but I think sometimes we jump into conclusions too fast.I mean,the brutha was looking for luv on mashada while you were together,ama how did you know he used to and the threads he was sending or replying to?
People,dont be too quick to throw stones at the alleged sinner.What could have pushed him away to the arms of the mashadite woman?
You wanted to know how to get over him - you've been given the advice.Take it or leave it.To go into details as to why,who when - why dont you take this time to reflect and see where you could have gone wrong so that next time when that 'good fish'(as you've been told)comes along,you'll do things better and if it doesnt work out,maybe you'll learn to invest only a piece your heart.
Maybe not the advice you'ld like to hear right now but if you can get away with it,its always good to be in control.