[milanya]

Zamani I met this jamaa who was really nice and I was very attracted to him. I soon found out he had a girlfriend so I backed off cause I'm not one of those girls. We ended up working together and he became one of my best friends. I soon started dating this other guy and was so happy with him. Later the jamaa I'd liked before and his girlfriend split up and he was single for a long time. I was still with my man. One day that jamaa came up to me and told me he was in love with me. It got me all confused and I started thinking what if? Part of me didn't want him to ever find another girlfriend though I was not planning on leaving my man. Does the fact that he was able to stir up my emotions like that mean I was not over him, or that I was unhappy in my relationship and ignoring it or was it just nostalgia or plain normal? By the way - I never went out with the guy because he moved and we drifted apart. The jamaa I was dating and i went out for years then our relationship ended for other reasons
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