[milanya]

Whether he is cheating or not, it comes down to this - he is no longer happy in your relationship, and that is why he is seeking companionship outside the relationship. A guy did that to me once, he didnt cheat, I know for a fact, at least not physically, emotionally I believe he did. He stopped doing little things first, walking me home every night. Then he stopped eating everyday with me. Then he stopped taking me out. Then whenever I'd visit he would be on the phone for hours talking to another woman claiming he just enjoyed her difference of opinion...I kept bugging him and he told me that I dont talk to him and that is why he talks to "other people". The last straw was when he started making 'plans' not dates he said (my foot!) to eat with her when i was sleeping, or sick or busy they ate together alone.I left for a while and she started inviting him out with her and calling him all the time. Then he told me I wish you would talk to me like she does. I was so angry I semad sawa, if u want someone to talk like her why get a copy when u can have the original? That's when he realized just how angry i was. He liked to discuss politics and i dont, and apparently she did so what was I to do?Like politics? All this time he knew who I was, I dont know why he seemed not to realize. I decided it's time for this relationship to end