[flyme]

i have a bfriend and we have been going out for sometime now.Of late he is not interested in spending time with me though i can tell he is really trying to be nice to me but i can also tell that he dosent want to spend his time with me.he recently hasnt touched me in anyway not even a hug!!!!he told me he loves me very much but i doubt if its true.he took me to dinner last week and we made out but then we argued the same night and i dint get any sleep.he gets calls from some chics he goes to the same college with and whenever he is talking to them he gets excited and looks happy only to turn to me and look all sad and upset.i have tried asking him what i am doing wrong but he says nothing is wrong and that he loves me.just the other day one of them(those silly chics)called and its like they had had an argument and he was assuring her that he wasnt mad at her.all this time i was there with him and he talked so passionately i am so jealous of these chics and i think he is cheating on me with one of them.i try my best not to invade his privacy so i never ask"who is that on the phone?"i never check his smses not even his email.i know he checks mine when i am not around coz he asked me a question about a guy who has been sending smses to me.anyhow i want to know how i can tell if he is cheating on me and i can call it quits.so how do i get to know if he is cheating on me?