[Whitehead]

Its more to do with closure than anything. Jamaas usually have a hard time ending relationships "the right way"...in fact I was just thinking about that today. They either do something to hurt the girl or they just keep it hanging but never talk about formal ending...Ive noticed this trend that a guy will never ever hold a discussion with you about breaking up EVER! They either can't handle it or ..I dont get it at all. It helps when you talk to a chille like a man and tell her to her face that the relationship has to end for reasons ABC...and then people move on and life is very easy.

Yep the contributor that I agree with is the one that talked about closure. Its very easy. Pull your guts together and TALK TO THE GIRL....it doesnt kill.

Whead.

PS: A friend of mine (not me) was into a certain dude only until her ex came back into the picture (the relationship had ended) and complicated things by "undoing" the closure..now she is in love with two dudes just coz of lack of closure I am sure that once she gets closure with the stupid ex shell love only that one dude lol. Not me by the way.

Peace.