[msema ukweli Kabisa]

Ok maybe I am joining this debat alittle bit late but I will go ahead ang give you my two cents coz the wise people once said, no wisdom is ever too late (:-) note I am insinuating that this is wisdom) lol

Anyway Sex as a skill or rather a tool for love making is not something people are born doing naturally, its something they learn. YOu maybe ahead of your boyfriend in terms of skills which is good. Your thread shows lack of understanding to your BF whom you claim to love, Dont want to go and qoute things like love is patient but you get my gist.

This is my advice, Dont go bluntly and tell him, we men are very sensitive towards sex issues and by telling him would be not be condusive as my guess would be he will withdraw and feel inadequate.

This is the way you should go about it, Encourage him, in nice sexy voice guide him and tell him what you like, eg if you like your nipples to be sucked encourage him and moan or atleast enjoy when he is doing that, If you like him to touch your clit show him and even teach him what amount of pressure to exert. Soon enough he will be waiting for your ques and if you stick to this it will be really easy for you to get some good sex going.

Playeress this time around I have to refuse what you told her. Doing that will more dent the relationship than build it

My two cents and msema ukweli has spoken