[Eunwa ya mungo]

For one, the mere fact that your man is jumping on you without shika shikaing those things tells me that he is either getting the main course somewhere else, and you are merely a desert, or you just do not turn him on at all. I would probably bet on the latter, because even if an African man gets some on the sides he will always be a bull in his own pad. A problem I have noticed with you mamas from home...you are locked in the era of missionaries. Trust me when your men encounter these sex crazed females in the west who are willing to siphon the hell out there manhood....you have to work extremely hard to compete.