RE: She is unable to keep up -
09-06-2005, 02:24 PM
@ MM
I should have added "In this day and age". True, Africans have that carry the name thing but like for example YOU yaani, if the kids went (God forbid) and you was ok 47 but your 39 yr old wifey couldn't concieve no more what would you do? Remember that chances are at this age, you ain't got no grand kids. Yes its a pretty loaded difficult question but thats just it.Most mashadites have been abroad and whether they admit it (or even recognise it) they've been exposed to diff schools of thought that is not necessarily African. I'm curious as to how many males would not HESITATE to have kidos with another woman. Would or have any of their 'exposure' influence them to let it go and live childless?
As for religion, no offence to you and yours but the whole religious arguement is honestly based on nonsense . Prior to modern birth control, women used to (and still do) calculate their fertile and non fertile days in order to boost or avoid pregnancy.Modern methods simply make it easier. I.E Back in the day we were still 'interfering' with nature/God trying to CONTROL our bodies.No religion had a problem with this. But now erbody talking about how its against nature,immoral, against religion. Truth is the religions are just skurred coz we got better at it me thinks.:)
I don't think Africans will have a prob once they get used to it.:) Folks like money. Once they understand how wealth operates and how having kids you can take care of can help gain this wealth, they'll give in. I know it sounds cold, but its the truth--people will give all the reasons in the world not to freeze it but once they get used to the idea that it will not physically harm them, i doubt they'll care.You wait you skia folks on the street bragging bout how they've got a million kids 'in the bank' ha!:)
Plus is all science and hence medical sivyo? Since when don't Africans line up to get all kinds of shots and medication when sick? Its only an alien concept now because its so 'new' and yes kinda 'odd' but nothing to fear.:)We've never rejected medical technology.
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