[nefertiti]

So,What happens, if for instance *GOD FORBID*, you loose all your children to an accident/calamity?
::confused

What purpose does it serve to have this procedure? Is it merely for family planing?,curb over population?,economizing income?,what are the benefits?(long run to the society as whole,which society btw?), is this the best option?, have we exausted the conventional methods?

Matter of fact, since the continent is loosing folks to AIDS,its high time we kept reproducing(Healthy) Babies,Me thinks
__________________________________________________ ___________________

If ( God forbid) you lost your children, having more will never 'replace' them. And frankly some people would not want to try for others due to the trauma of losing the firsts. Also what if you loose them when your wife is too old to have anymore? I'm really curious about this question-- posing it to the men that is. How many of you would want your wife to 'let' you have other kidos even if you was both 50? I.e you have others with anaa woman? I ask this because while i understand that its a fair question you just posed about the firsts dying, i am curious if this is just or mostly an African thing--this need for a man to have kids no matter what.

Anyway to answer your question, most docs/clinics give you the option of storing ya sperm b'4 the op.That way if something was to go wrong with the reversal or you opted not to reverse but want more kids, you can always use IFV and inserminate.Expensive though and uncomfortable for her too.

The benefits are family planning. Most third world countries have too many kids they can't afford. Unfortunately most folks still operate on 'the more the wealthier' mode which while is not a BAD thing,is very destructive in modern times seeing as we are trying to chase the western model and fashion our economies on theirs.We can't have a thao kids coz we can't feed em and the whole African thing of the whole society chiping in is a thing of the past-kila mtu na watoto wake. Plus it is a well known fact that a lot of women die giving birth to these mutiple kidos.It is not easy on the body to be pg 24/7 especially since most of these women are poor.Not to mention the kids that die due to the same poverty--too much pain,stress and sadness all around.Not a good life.Oh yeah, sex will def be better.No worries.

But your last point is very mportant indeed. I guess we were mostly speaking about individual marriage as opposed to the whole of Africa coz ya right, having mob kids ABCD is the only thing thats prolly keeping AIDS from wiping us off the face of the planet seeing that the Catholic church is still telling folks not to use condoms.