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The last point i would def agree with. If your married and have had enough kids common sense should kick in and the man should get a vasectomy. The sex will be better.

BTW lots of info (both books and online) state that tubal ligation is reversable. This is somewhat untrue or rather 'too optimistic'.The truth is that a lot of the time it is not as easy as that statement there.In fact more often than not, once you do it, its over for you kidswise because it is a very delicate and complicated procedure.This is also why it is often advised that the huzi do it.For the woman, you could bleed and suffer all kinds of post op complications whereas with the vasectomy, in-out and you'll be fine in a few weeks or so.

I don't understand why some men are so opposed to it. It would seem that many still believe that they won't enjoy sex after.Not true. You'll just have no swimmers in the sea is all...No biggie.