I would like to support the debate on Vasectomy. I am married to a wonderful man who made the wonderful move of choosing vasectomy as a family planning method. He did so when he was 31 years old (hefs now 42) and just like the men who were interviewed last week (Living August 24, 2005) he will never regret making that decision.
We have two lovely children in their teens and we are a very happy couple, reason being that we were both set free from the fear and anxiety of our family growing to an uncontrollable size. Sex was not enjoyable because of this fear. But now we are enjoying our sex lives to a degree anyone would covet. My husband is available to me and vice versa any time of the day or night. If anything, I am the one who is sometimes unable to keep up with his pace.
My husband always accompanied me to the family planning clinic and couldnft stand the thought of me trying one method after another. So he made the decision to help me. This, to me, is true love.
As for those men saying "never" to vasectomy, they are not committed to their partners. They are willing to loiter outside marriage and would even want to re-marry. This means they do not love their wives. Vasectomy is surely the best option for men who have total commitment, and who love, cherish and value their wives and families.
A truly loved Christian wife
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