[TeamManager]

First, Love is a choice and not a 'feeling'.
Second, Friendship and respect are very important.

>Nway, I have raised this issue a
>million times, and my bubble is just about to burst!

Don't stress yourself. Relax! Just have a nice talk with him without trying to manipliate or threaten him. I just hope the guy was not brought up by a mum who believes that boys/men don't do housework. Worse if he is a lazy fellow.

What happens when you are not feeling well or late?
Maybe you should take a holiday.