[cwangari]

>i fear am in real trouble here. am financially stable (an
>international job, good academic papers, etc) but a little shy
>and introverted. i've tried to be good to galz but it seems am
>only attracted to galz that are unavailable to me or those who
>are not serious with life. me i want to move in and be nice
>and committed to her. no playing--just being nice and good
>24/7. roho safi. but all i get is frustration.i wonder: can a
>good gal fall in love with a shy good man. or do i have to
>play macho and rough?

First you need to stop calling them 'galz / gal', unless you have been looking in all the wrong places like NDUU i.e Kindergarten, Primary school? etc nway if you want to meet a nice lady, stop looking just be you!