[steven]

i fear am in real trouble here. am financially stable (an international job, good academic papers, etc) but a little shy and introverted. i've tried to be good to galz but it seems am only attracted to galz that are unavailable to me or those who are not serious with life. me i want to move in and be nice and committed to her. no playing--just being nice and good 24/7. roho safi. but all i get is frustration.i wonder: can a good gal fall in love with a shy good man. or do i have to play macho and rough?