[Kenya Gikoyo]

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>P/S: Don't go back to him begging for him to come back to
>you, chances are he has already moved on and won't take you
>back and looking back years later, you will feel so belittled,
>humiliated and stupid to pull such a stunt. Let it go!



Boy don't I just luv such advice.

It's nearly next to imposible to just leave coz like you pointed out the jamaa had a head start to get 'over her' while their were still together while the poor chic is bila notice or a smooth-landing-get-out time table. It touches on being rejected and being used. What that means is the jamaa right now has the upper hand. He's home free.

For the chica it means she must find some sort of 'closure', when did the jamaa fall out in luv? is he seeing someone else? etc etc. and walking away is not part of that closure. At any rate her poor broken-heart won't let her walk away any way even if common sense dictates otherwise.