[cosmo_girl]

>chicka--maybe its the way you put it across to him. If you
>told him in a stern way the fala will leave you alone- if you
>did it in a sweet way- he will be so persistant and bring you
>unnecessary s*it- tell him straight up- bila kucheka na yeye.

at first yenyewe i told him nicely, ati trying not to be a #### and all, ... then when he insisssssssted i was with sura you kazi and very firm,...... hence the reaction i guess right! mssshhh!!